Define Normal
So there I was, laying on the red line in the hallway at Mountain View, pondering what to do to break a social norm for Mr. Glahn’s Sociology class. My friend Chelynn came over to tell me that I was weird, and that I obviously didn’t care what people thought of me if I was on my back in the middle of the hall. When I asked her why it mattered she said, “It’s just not normal.” And that’s when it hit me. The social norm I broke was laying down in the hallway in a public place, in this case, school. I started out on the red line by the choir room, but I wasn’t getting enough reaction, so I switched directions so I was perpendicular to the red line. People had to step over me to get through the hall. There were two main reaction types that I observed: ignoring me and making a big deal of it.
Most of the people who passed by me just ignored the fact that I was in their pathway. My friends who were watching said that they would stare at me when they first noticed. Then they would pointedly look away when they got close enough for me to see them. Students and teachers just walked on past without saying a word, or acknowledging my odd behavior. Even some people I knew didn’t even bother to look down and see who the freak on the floor was. After a while, people would avoid the situation altogether by taking the alternate route; down the stairs, over to the next set of stairs, up, and away. I found the reactions very funny, so I spent most of the time laughing, which didn’t help my image. I’m sure a good portion of the students think I am a freak now.
While those who didn’t know me just passed on by, most of the people who did made a big deal of it. Principal Clark passed by and made a big deal of having a “dead body” in the hallway. Noelle Reid pretended to step on me and then threw her backpack on me. Ouch! Austin Miner asked me in a very skeptical voice, “What are you doing?” Some of my friends who saw me stayed to see the reactions of others. It was nice having my friends there for moral support. It got kind of awkward sometimes. Like once a girl said, “Why don’t you just sit up for goodness sake?” That was very uncomfortable. Or when a guy tripped over me. Let me tell ya, not my favorite thing in the world.
People in general were very tactful about the situation. It was very funny to see the looks of questioning in their eyes, and yet have them say nothing. I think that people are raised to not call attention to certain things. Society tells people how to behave toward different people or situations. People reacted the way they did because that was how society told them to react.
5 Comments:
You are so awesome Missy! I don't think I could ever have the guts to lie down in the middle of the hall all lunch. You really made my day!
10:54 AM
You are honestly my hero. I think i love you to death. So my blog kicked me off...This is Emily, just in case you didn't know...Love ya!
4:55 PM
Sometimes I think you will be the death of me. Oh well, I love you for it, even if it does lead to a premature death. By the way, my problem is not that it isn't normal, it is that the hallway floors are disgusting. You didn't see all the dirt, dust, and who know what on the back of your sweater after lying on the floor. It got in your hair too. That's gross, and I know that you don't care and think that I'm a germaphobe, but the hall floor is just revolting. (I've commented, Are you happy?)
7:41 PM
Haha! That's Hilarious! I wish I could have done it with you. If I were to come across you I would probably ignor you too (had I not known you) I might be annoyed too. People are trying to walk around and there's this freak whose just in everyone's way who doesn't have enough curtesy to get up and go somewhere else. Depends on the day I'm having. And Chelynn is right- that is disgusting.
11:25 PM
You write very well.
7:26 AM
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